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I am new to eSnips and just wanted to share something with you. My husband and I have been together for 10 years/married for the last three. just last year, we nearly divorced. The day before court and after a very painful separation, we (may I add against the advice of our families) decided not to go. I can say this...marriage is about what is on the other side of bad decisions, heartache and mistakes. True growth in a marriage stems from a decision. One simple decision. Never consider the alternative. Never say the word divorce. I wouldn't trade our struggle for the world because now I can honestly say that I'm not just married...I have a great marriage.

I am so glad you solved your problems and enjoy an happy life together to often people take marriage too lightly it not a trap to tie people together but an exclusive institution of which a couple join on marriage it like any job needs work and give and take

Far to many sit back on there laurels thinking now we are married we don't need to try any longer and you should be happy after all we are married it is constant work and the result is true happiness